Super Mom Who???

Who is this lady known as SuperMom and can she come train me? This week is the first week that my husband has gone back on  the road (truck driver), since having The Queen, who is 4 months now?

Let me just give yall a little run down of my life. I am a night shift nurse, I only work 3 nights a week (THANK GOODNESS), well when I work during the week, I have to rush home to the kids, just to drop everyone off at school, sleep a few hours, then wake to pick them up from school, and  of course I am then, fixing snacks, helping with homework, and making dinner, finishing up only with enough time to through on some scrubs and hit the door!!

MY HOUSE IS A WRECK!!!  I want to bake. I want to enjoy the Christmas season, before it quickly comes and goes…and did I mention that my house is a WRECK!!!!

I am the type of person who likes to feel like I have some sort of control over my day, if not my life. This one week with K4 away has really put things in perspective for me. Laundry is backed up. What straightening up I can do, it is usually with the Queen on my hip. K2 and K3 are forever fighting, and I am screaming “LEAVE HIM ALONE. STOP THAT. GIVE THAT BACK.”

Before leaving K4 (who is my husband, in case you did not know) bought a dog. Upon getting it, I declared that I would have nothing to do with it, I have a newborn that is demanding enough, point. blank. period. HE IS NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY….I did not take in account K4 returning to  work and who does it fall on??? Of course THE SERVANT!

Poor dog, yesterday I fed him, which I feed him outside bc he is not house trained and I do not want him pooping in the house, well, I placed him out there, of course got distracted in the craziness that is our house, next thing I know the neighbor is knocking on my door, holding him bc he ran across the street. *facepalm* You have to supervise the dumb dog!!!!*

So this morning….After getting off from work, and playing taxi cab (or Limo) driver, as K2 would call me, dropping everyone off to school, I got home, just fed him  (the dog) in the house, because I did not have the energy to stand outside and watch him, and should I have fallen asleep and just left him out, I would NEVER hear the end of it, should something happen to him! Of course I fell asleep before he finished eating and I had to spend a great deal of my day, cleaning up poop and pee 😦 I can’t win.

So dear SuperMom, wherever you may be, can you stop over, and give me a little one on one lesson, because this mommy here is a hot ass mess!!!

Who is 4 Kings and A Queen?

Hi. I am a mother of 4, 3 boys and as of 3 months ago, our very first and only little girl. 4 Kings, representing my 3 sons and FANTABULOUS husbdand, and our very high maintenence and needy 3 month old Queen.

Where do I fit in the picture you may ask? As my 7 year old would say, I am their servent. I am their nurse, their maid, their cook, their teacher….I am just mommy, and I would have it no other way.

As an introduction, I should tell you that I am 27 years old. Met my husband at, 17, might as well say 18, and he has been my rock every since. I am also a nurse, I work full time, nights, weekends, so I am still able to spend the week with my babies. More importantly I think you should know that I am still “studying” “How To Be A Mother.” I don’t have all of the answers, I don’t have my life together cookie cutter straight, sometimes my life is a complete mess, most times my house is even messier. I read mommy blogs, everyday I try to be better than the last. My biggest fear is to fail my children. I don’t want to love them so much that it hinders them, but I kinda sorta could and would do that, if it were not for my semi militant husband. We kinda level one another out, I’m sure a bit of my sugar rubbed off on his hardcore “my way or the hightway” attitude.

That, was our life with boys, now that our Queen has arrived, it seems as if this hardcore poppa will turn to cotton balls, and sugar cane. It’s quite an adventure and I am just excited to be able to experience it, and so blessed to be given such an awesome group of people to experience it with.

So thank you for joining in on this post. I hope you have as much fun on this journey to….being a mother of four, as I do. Help me, pray for me, love me!! LOL Thanks for reading!

Humbly Yours,

The Servant.